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Spread Them Wide. Hold Them There. Let the Games Begin.
A good spreader bar doesn’t just restrain—it invites.
Whether you're craving legs-wide-open vulnerability, bent-over obedience, or an exposed, held-open position that says “I’m yours”, this is the gear that makes it happen.
Our selection of spreader bars for bondage and sex play is built for both beginners and serious kinksters. Choose from simple, lightweight bars for easy restraint, or heavy-duty adjustable designs with ankle and wrist cuffs for full-body submission.
Looking to explore pup play or a crawling position? Try a compact bar that folds arms and legs in tight. Want to lock someone down and watch them squirm? You’ll want something with multiple points of control.
Pair it with a collar, cuffs, gag—or nothing at all.
Whoever wears it, one thing’s for sure: they’re not going anywhere.
Scroll down to find the spreader that holds your scene wide open.
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NEW INMore Than 40% OffNEW INMore Than 40% OffBondage Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs
Now ONLY $19Don't Pay $35Your submissive kneels in place, their wrists and ankles bound to a single firm bar, legs spread just wide enough to show off everything—and arms held still to keep them compliant. Whether you want them begging on all fours or bent over... -
Stainless Steel Shackle Bar with Padlock
Now ONLY $105Don't Pay $165Step up your bondage game with the Stainless Steel Spreader Bar. As you secure your sub’s legs in the adjustable cuffs, they will experience the thrill of total immobilization. The cold, smooth steel against their skin serves as a constant reminder... -
Stainless Steel Spreader Bar with Padlock
Now ONLY $129Don't Pay $165Step up your bondage game with the Stainless Steel Spreader Bar. As you secure your sub’s legs in the adjustable cuffs, they will experience the thrill of total immobilization. The cold, smooth steel against their skin serves as a constant reminder... -
The Lollipop Adjustable Triple Spreader Bar with Collar, Wrist & Ankle Cuffs
Now ONLY $399Don't Pay $519The Lollipop Adjustable Triple Spreader Bar is expertly crafted to ensure complete submission, allowing you to keep your sub's arms and legs wide open for close examination and play. The collar on the top ensure that they have minimal mobility... -
The Lollipop Steel Spreader Bar with Handcuffs & Collar - Black
Now ONLY $99Don't Pay $145Lock your slave's wrists and head in place with The Lollipop Steel Black Spreader Bar with Handcuffs & Collar. This bar features a central chain that is connected to a choker, adding an extra layer of dominance. On each end, large rings are... -
The Lollipop Steel Spreader Bar with Handcuffs & Collar - Red
Now ONLY $99Don't Pay $145Lock your slave's wrists and head in place with The Lollipop Steel Red Spreader Bar with Handcuffs & Collar. This bar features a central chain that is connected to a choker, adding an extra layer of dominance. On each end, large rings are... -
The Lollipop Steel Spreader Bar with Handcuffs - Black
Now ONLY $79Don't Pay $125The Lollipop Stainless Steel Spreader Bar is a versatile accessory designed to keep your sub restrained to your liking. Securely fixed to each end of the bar are two black vegan leather wrist cuffs, ensuring your slave remains in place. The soft and... -
The Lollipop Steel Spreader Bar with Handcuffs - Red
Now ONLY $79Don't Pay $125The Lollipop Stainless Steel Spreader Bar is a versatile accessory designed to keep your sub restrained to your liking. Securely fixed to each end of the bar are two red vegan leather wrist cuffs, ensuring your slave remains in place. The soft and fluffy... -
The Lollipop Nylon Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs
Now ONLY $45Don't Pay $49Secure and spread your slave's wrists and ankles effortlessly with The Lollipop Nylon Spreader Bar. Designed for complete access, this device allows you to widen their stance for easy exploration of their wet warm holes. It is also a beginner-friendly...
Learn More Before You Play!
How do I use a spreader bar for sex?
A spreader bar is a bondage tool designed to keep the wearer's legs, arms, or both held apart, making them more exposed, more vulnerable, and completely under control. It's used in BDSM scenes for restraint, position control, humiliation play, or simply to hold someone open and ready for whatever comes next.
Is a spreader bar beginner-friendly?
Totally. Just start with soft, padded cuffs and an adjustable bar. You don’t need ropes or a dungeon—just curiosity and consent.
Our beginner bars are perfect for first-time restraint play.
What positions can I use with a spreader bar?
So many. Try:
- Lying down with ankles spread
- Bent over a bed or bench
- Kneeling or crawling (great for pup play)
- Standing with wrists and ankles attached for full exposure
Many bars are adjustable so you can explore multiple setups and levels of restriction.
What should I pair with a spreader bar?
The options are delicious. Try adding:
- A ball gag or bit gag for silence and drool
- A collar and leash for training scenes
- Impact toys (paddle, crop, flogger) for punishment or teasing
Or keep it simple and let the position do all the work
Can a spreader bar really stop someone from moving?
Oh yes. Once you're spread and restrained, you're stuck in that position until someone lets you out. It’s not just about immobility—it’s about surrender, control, and the mental edge of knowing you’re fully exposed.
Got more questions? Ask Monique here!
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