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Spreader Bar BDSM, Spreader Bar Sex & Leg Spreader Bar Positions
In spreader bar sex or spreader bar bdsm scenes, the lock clicks and the body submits — open, exposed and held exactly where you want it. The moment a sub's wrists or ankles lock around the bar, their body opens, stills and stays exactly where you want it. Whether it's a rigid steel bar forcing their legs apart or an adjustable model dialed into the perfect angle, spreader bars turn the body into something easy to pose, restrain and command.
The Lollipop brings together options built for control and clarity — perfect for leg spreader sex, spreader bar sex, and full-body spreader bar bdsm restraints. everything from steel bars to adjustable designs and wrist‑and‑ankle systems. These spreader bar sex toys hold your partner wide, obedient and ready — letting you focus on the scene, the tension and the way their body reacts.
Why Spreader Bars Work So Well in BDSM Play
- They lock the body into stable, controlled positions that force compliance and expose every angle.
- They remove the sub's ability to close their legs or curl inward.
- They help shape power exchange by limiting movement.
- They work with other gear like cuffs, collars, hoods and blindfolds.
- They make penetration, teasing and edging much easier.
Spreader bars aren't just gear – they're a positioning tool that changes the entire dynamic of a scene.
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More Than 40% OffMore Than 40% OffBondage Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs
Now ONLY £10Don't Pay £19Your submissive kneels in place, their wrists and ankles bound to a single firm bar, legs spread just wide enough to show off everything—and arms held still to keep them compliant. Whether you want them begging on all fours or bent over... -
Stainless Steel Shackle Bar with Padlock
Now ONLY £58Don't Pay £91Step up your bondage game with the Stainless Steel Spreader Bar. As you secure your sub’s legs in the adjustable cuffs, they will experience the thrill of total immobilization. The cold, smooth steel against their skin serves as a constant reminder... -
Stainless Steel Spreader Bar with Padlock
Now ONLY £71Don't Pay £91Step up your bondage game with the Stainless Steel Spreader Bar. As you secure your sub’s legs in the adjustable cuffs, they will experience the thrill of total immobilization. The cold, smooth steel against their skin serves as a constant reminder... -
The Lollipop Adjustable Triple Spreader Bar with Collar, Wrist & Ankle Cuffs
Now ONLY £219Don't Pay £285The Lollipop Adjustable Triple Spreader Bar is expertly crafted to ensure complete submission, allowing you to keep your sub's arms and legs wide open for close examination and play. The collar on the top ensure that they have minimal mobility... -
The Lollipop Steel Spreader Bar with Handcuffs & Collar - Black
Now ONLY £54Don't Pay £80Lock your slave's wrists and head in place with The Lollipop Steel Black Spreader Bar with Handcuffs & Collar. This bar features a central chain that is connected to a choker, adding an extra layer of dominance. On each end, large rings are... -
The Lollipop Steel Spreader Bar with Handcuffs & Collar - Red
Now ONLY £54Don't Pay £80Lock your slave's wrists and head in place with The Lollipop Steel Red Spreader Bar with Handcuffs & Collar. This bar features a central chain that is connected to a choker, adding an extra layer of dominance. On each end, large rings are... -
The Lollipop Steel Spreader Bar with Handcuffs - Black
Now ONLY £43Don't Pay £69The Lollipop Stainless Steel Spreader Bar is a versatile accessory designed to keep your sub restrained to your liking. Securely fixed to each end of the bar are two black vegan leather wrist cuffs, ensuring your slave remains in place. The soft and... -
The Lollipop Steel Spreader Bar with Handcuffs - Red
Now ONLY £43Don't Pay £69The Lollipop Stainless Steel Spreader Bar is a versatile accessory designed to keep your sub restrained to your liking. Securely fixed to each end of the bar are two red vegan leather wrist cuffs, ensuring your slave remains in place. The soft and fluffy... -
The Lollipop Nylon Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs
Now ONLY £25Don't Pay £27Secure and spread your slave's wrists and ankles effortlessly with The Lollipop Nylon Spreader Bar. Designed for complete access, this device allows you to widen their stance for easy exploration of their wet warm holes. It is also a beginner-friendly...
How to Choose the Right Spreader Bar
- For beginners: Start with light leg spreaders or nylon models.
- For serious restraint: Use steel or heavy-duty adjustable bars.
- For versatility: Choose telescopic bars with secure locks.
- For advanced bondage: Combine bars with cuffs or collar attachments.
- For long sessions: Ensure padding and cuff adjustability.
Types of Spreader Bars Available for Spreader Bar Sex & BDSM
Steel Spreader Bars
Solid, unforgiving and immovable. Ideal for firm restraint, power exchange dynamics and positions that require strong, stable separation. Many designs stay comfortable to wear when sized correctly.
Adjustable / Telescopic Spreader Bars
Customizable length with secure locking mechanisms. Great for couples wanting precise control over spacing and scene intensity.
Spreader Bars with Cuffs
Built‑in wrist or ankle cuffs turn one bar into a full restraint system. Perfect when you want them spread, helpless and unable to close anything you’ve opened. Built-in wrist or ankle cuffs turn one bar into a full restraint system. Excellent for immobilizing the body in open, exposed positions.
Leg Spreader Bars
Designed to hold thighs wide apart and keep them there. Ideal for edging, discipline, inspection or any scene where vulnerability is part of the thrill. Designed specifically to keep thighs wide apart. A staple for sex positioning, discipline and easy-access scenes.
Wrist-and-Ankle Combo Bars
Linking upper and lower limbs creates full-body tension and absolute stillness.
Safety Notes
- Check hip, knee and wrist comfort often.
- Avoid forcing joints beyond natural range.
- Confirm circulation and temperature in hands and feet.
- Keep communication open, especially during intense positions.
Are spreader bars suitable for beginners?
Yes.
Start with lighter models or those with padded, adjustable cuffs.
Are spreader bars safe for sex positioning?
Yes, as long as joint comfort and body alignment are maintained.
What’s the difference between fixed and adjustable bars?
Fixed bars hold one distance.
Adjustable bars let you set the exact spread.
Can spreader bars be used with other restraints?
Absolutely.
They pair well with cuffs, collars, ropes and hoods.
Do spreader bars hurt to wear?
They shouldn't.
Always check fit, pressure points and limb flexibility.
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