How to Use a Pocket Pussy (Without Feeling Awkward About It)

You’re not the only guy who’s ever typed this into Google. Good news? You’re about to feel something way better than your hand.

So, you bought a pocket pussy.
Or maybe it’s sitting in your cart right now while you wonder:

“Am I seriously about to lube up and f*ck a toy?”

Yeah.
You are.
And you’re going to enjoy every second of it.

Using a pocket pussy for the first time might feel unfamiliar, but it’s not weird—it’s smart.
It means you’re ready to treat your solo time like it actually matters.
And trust us: once you slide in, you won’t be thinking about anything except how damn good it feels.

Here’s how to do it right—from warm-up to clean-up—with no cringe, just better orgasms.

Step 1: Give It a Quick Rinse

Before you even reach for the lube, run your new toy under warm water for a few seconds.

Why?

• It removes any factory residue
• It warms up the material slightly
• It makes your brain register it as something intimate, not awkward

Feeling fancy? Soak it in warm water for a few minutes to simulate body heat, or use a toy warmer. 
That’s right—you’re setting the mood with your toy.
It’s gonna pay off.

Step 2: Use More Lube Than You Think

This is the biggest mistake first-time users make.
Your hand doesn’t need lube. But a pocket pussy? Totally different game.

• Use a quality water-based lube
• Squeeze a good amount inside the sleeve
• Rub some around the entrance
• Lube yourself up too—because you deserve it

Pro tip:
Warm the lube for extra realism.
Microwave a mug of water, let the lube bottle sit in it for 2–3 minutes.
Then lube up like a pro.

Step 3: Slide In Slowly

Don’t rush.
Let the toy pull you in.

• Find your rhythm
• Feel how the internal textures hug you
• Notice how the closed-end builds pressure with every stroke
• Let yourself react—moan, edge, grip the sheets if you need to

You’re not here to “get it over with.”
You’re here to enjoy the ride.

Most guys finish faster the first time than they expect.
That’s normal. You’ll last longer next round—and trust us, there will be a next round.

Step 4: Play With Pressure and Position

The best part about a pocket pussy?
It does what your hand can’t.

Try this:

• Slow strokes to tease
• Faster thrusts to build tension
• Twisting motions for extra stimulation
• Use your other hand to squeeze the base and control suction
• Prop it between pillows or between your thighs for hands-free grinding

Make it your own.
Make it feel good.

Step 5: Clean It (So You Can Use It Again)

Yeah, clean-up is part of it. But don’t skip this—it keeps your toy feeling soft, safe, and sexy for the next round.

Here’s how to do it right:

1. Rinse with warm water right after you’re done
2. Use a mild soap or toy cleaner
3. Flush the inside with a bulb or enema tool (seriously—makes it so easy)
4. Let it air dry or pat gently with a lint-free towel
5. Store it in a dry, dust-free space (no shame in a toy bag, bro)
6. Need a cleaner or rinser? Shop our easy-clean kits →

Still Feeling Awkward?

Let’s kill that shame real quick.

Using a pocket pussy doesn’t make you weird.
It means:

• You care about your pleasure
• You want better orgasms
• You’re smart enough to try a tool made for your body

This isn’t a joke.
It’s not embarrassing.
It’s just better than jerking off the old way.

Ready for More?

Try this next time:

• Edge yourself until you can’t take it anymore
• Use a mirror and watch how your body reacts
• Add audio or porn for full sensory overload
• Explore different textures and levels of tightness
• Pair it with a cock ring or a prostate plug for mind-melting results

Yeah. You’re officially in the advanced class now.

Final Thoughts

Using a pocket pussy isn’t just about getting off.
It’s about exploring what feels good.
It’s about giving your body the kind of slow, teasing, high-sensation session it actually craves.

And once you start…
Your hand won’t feel the same again.

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