How to Do Sounding

A Step-by-Step Guide to Urethral Play

Sounding, or urethral play, offers unique sensations that can range from subtle pleasure to intense stimulation, including prostate contact. If you're curious about adding sounding to your kink repertoire, this guide will walk you through the essential steps to ensure you do it safely and pleasurably.

Step 1: Choose the Right Equipment

• Sound Material: Use medical-grade stainless steel or platinum-grade silicone sounds. These materials are non-porous and can be sterilized effectively.
• Beginner Size: Start with a smaller sound that matches your urethral diameter. Beginner kits often provide multiple sizes so you can gradually work your way up.

Tip: Avoid using household objects or toys not specifically designed for sounding as they can cause injury.

Step 2: Prepare Your Sounding Kit

• Sterilization: Sterilize your sounds before each session using boiling water or a sterilizing agent. Once clean, store them in a sterile, sealed bag to prevent contamination.
• Lubrication: Choose a sterile, water-based lubricant. Apply generously to both the sound and the urethral opening. Proper lubrication minimizes discomfort and eases insertion.

Tip: Never use saliva or oil-based lubricants as they can introduce bacteria and increase the risk of infection.

Step 3: Prepare Your Body

• Relax: Find a comfortable position, such as lying on your back with your legs slightly apart. Take deep breaths to help your body relax. Tension can make insertion more difficult and uncomfortable.
• Cleanliness: Wash your hands thoroughly and clean the area around your urethral opening with alcohol wipes to reduce the risk of infection.

Tip: Relaxation is key. Rushing can lead to injury, so take your time.

Step 4: Insert the Sound

• Gentle Insertion: Hold the sound at the top and gently guide it into your urethra. Let gravity and light pressure do most of the work—never force the sound in. If you feel resistance, stop and reassess. Sometimes more lubricant or a smaller sound will help.
• Depth and Sensation: Start with shallow insertion. As you become more comfortable, you can explore deeper sensations. Some advanced users might experiment with curved sounds that reach the prostate.

Tip: Focus on the sensations rather than depth. The urethra is sensitive, and overstimulation can lead to discomfort.

Step 5: Engage in Partner Play (Optional)

• Communication: If you’re sounding with a partner, establish boundaries and use safe words. Communicate openly throughout the session.
• Control and Trust: The partner controlling the sound can vary the speed and depth, adding elements of power exchange and trust, key components in BDSM play.

Tip: Stay attentive to your partner's responses and ensure the play remains pleasurable and consensual.

Step 6: Remove the Sound

• Slow Withdrawal: When removing the sound, do so slowly and gently, similar to the insertion process. Rushing removal can cause irritation or injury.

Tip: After removal, take a moment to relax and gauge how your body feels.

Step 7: Post-Play Care

• Clean Up: After your session, clean the sound thoroughly and sterilize it before storing it away. Be mindful of any discomfort, pain, or unusual symptoms in the hours or days following your session.
• Health Check: If you experience sharp pain, blood in your urine, or difficulty urinating, seek medical attention promptly.

Tip: Aftercare is essential, even in solo play. Hydrate and monitor your body for any signs of distress.

Step 8: Gradual Progression

• Advanced Exploration: As you become more comfortable with sounding, you can experiment with different sound shapes, textures, or even urethral vibrators for added stimulation. Always progress gradually to avoid injury.

Tip: Sounding is about exploration. Listen to your body and enjoy the journey at your own pace.

With proper preparation, patience, and care, sounding can be a highly pleasurable and rewarding experience. Whether you’re indulging solo or with a partner, always prioritize safety and communication to fully enjoy this unique form of urethral play.